Book Recommendations

1. The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, by Ester Perel
2. After the Affair: Healing The Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful by Janis Abrams Spring Ph.D.
3. Not “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Insanity After Infidelity by Shirley P. Glass, Ph.D.
4. Affairs: A Guide To Working Through The Repercussions of Infidelity by Emily Brown.
5. Getting Past The Affair by Douglas Snyder, Ph.D, Donald Baucom, Ph.D., and Kristine Gordon, Ph.D.
6. New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity by Tammy Wilson Ph.D.
7. The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook For Recovery From Affairs by Peggy Vaughan
8. A Couple’s Guide To Sexual Addiction: A Step by Step Plan to Rebuild Trust and Restore Intimacy by Paldrom Catherine Collins and George Collins

1. Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum.
2. The Good Divorce: Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart by Constance Ahrons, Ph.D.
3. Unofficial Guide to Getting a Divorce by Russell Wild and Susan Wild.
4. Divorce and New Beginnings: An Authoritative Guide to Recovery and Growth, Solo Parenting and Stepfamilies by Genevieve Clapp, Ph.D.
5. Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making Two Homes for Your Child by Isolina Ricci, Ph.D.
6. Growing Up With Divorce: Helping Your Child Avoid Immediate and Later Emotional Problems by Neil Kalter
7. Surviving The Breakup: How Children and Parents Cope with Divorce by Judith S. Wallerstein and Joan Berlin Kelly.

1. Sexual Awareness by Barry McCarthy Ph.D.
2. The Sex Starved Marriage by Michele Weiner Davis
3. Intimacy and Desire by David Schnarch Ph.D.
4. Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by David Schnarch, Ph.D.
5. CPR For Your Sex Life: How To Breath Life Into a Dead, Dying or Dull Sex Life: A Guide and Workbook for Couples by Mildred L. Brown Ph.D and Stephen Braveman M.A.
6. The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin, Ph.D.
7. Love Maps by John Money, Ph.D.
8. Male Sexuality by Michael Bader
9. Male Sexuality by Bernie Zilbergeld Ph.D
10. Men’s Sexual Health: Fitness For Satisfying Sex by Barry McCarthy Ph.D and Michael Metz Ph.D.
11. A Billion Wicked Thoughts by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam
12. In The Shadow of The Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive On-line Sexual Behavior by Patrick Carnes Ph.D., David Delmonico Ph.D, and Elizabeth Griffin M.A.
13. Don’t Call It Love: Recovery From Sexual Addiction by Patrick Carnes Ph.D.
14. The Alchemy of Love and Lust by Theresa L. Grenshaw M.D.
15. Letting Go of Shame by Ronald Potter-Efron and Patricia Potter-Efron
16. Ethical Porn For Dicks by David Ley Ph.D.
17. The Myth of Sex Addiction by David Ley Ph.D.
18. Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior: Rethinking Sex Addiction by Douglas Braun-Harvey and Michael A. Vigorito
19. The Return of Desire: A Guide To Rediscovering Your Sexual Passion by Gina Ogden, Ph.D.
20. Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps To More Passionate Intimate Love Making by Patricia Love, M.D.
21. Sex Matters For Women: A Complete Guide To Taking Care of Your Sexual Self by Sallie Foley MSW, Sally Kope MSW, and Dennis Surgrave Ph.D.
22. Getting The Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together by Tammy Nelson Ph.D
23. Mating In Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Ester Perel
24. Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi? by Joe Kort
25. Sex Outside The Lines by Chris Donaghue Ph.D
26. Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits: Secrets of Sustaining Intimate Relationships by Deborah Anapol
27. The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide To Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Adventures by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
28. Who’s Been Sleeping In Your Head: The Secret World of Sexual Fantasies by Brett Kahr
29. When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt
30. Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria Brame, William Brame and Jon Jacobs
31. The Ultimate Guide To Kink: BDSM, Role Play and Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino
32. Perv: The Sexual Deviant In All of Us by Jesse Bering
33. Your Brain on Sex: How Smarter Sex Can Change Your Life by Stanley Siegel LCSW

Transbodies, Transselves edited by Laura Erickson-Schroth

Transbodies, Transselves, edited by Laura Ericson-Schroth

G.L.B.T.Q.: The Survival Guide For Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning Tees by Kelly Huegel

American Savage: Insights, Slights Fights on Faith, Sex, Love and Politics by Dan Savage

Lesbian Couples: A Guide To Creating Health Relationships by D. Merilee Clunis, Ph.D and G. Dorsey Green, Ph.D

Coming Out Of Shame: Transforming Gay and Lesbian Lives by Gershen Kaufman Ph.D and Lev Raphael Ph.D.

How To Be A Happy Lesbian: A Coming Out Guide by Tracey Stevens and Katherine Wunder

10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives by Joe Kort

10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Find Real Love by Joe Kort

Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and The Rest Of Us by Kate Bornstein

Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women’s Love and Desire by Lisa Diamond

Cross Dressing, Sex and Gender by Vern L. Bulloch and Bonnie Bulloch

Excluded: Making Feminist and Queer Movements More Inclusive by Julia Serano

The Prager Handbook of Transsexuality by Rachael Ann Heath

1. The Mindfulness Solution: Everyday Practices for Everyday Problems by Ronald D. Siegel, PsyD.
2. The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, M.D.
3. The Mindful Way Through Depression: Freeing Yourself from Chronic Unhappiness by Mark Williams, John Teasdale, Zindel Segal and Jon Kabat-Zinn.
4. Learned Optimism: How To Change your Mind and Your Life by Martin Seligman, Ph.D.
5. Train Your Mind: Change Your Brain: How a New Science Reveals Our Extraordinary Potential To Transform Ourselves by Sharon Begley.
6. The How of Happiness: A Scientific Approach To Getting The Life You Want by Sonja Lyubomirsky Ph.D.
7. The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edmund J. Bourne, Ph.D.
8. The Worry Trap: How to Free Yourself from Worry and Anxiety Using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy by Chad Lejeune, Ph.D.
9. Calming Your Anxious Mind: How Mindfulness and Compassion Can Free You From Anxiety, Fear and Panic by Jeffery Brantely, M.D.

1. Driven To Distraction: Recognizing and Coping With Attention Deficit Disorder from Childhood through Adulthood by Edward M. Hallowell, M.D., and John J. Ratey, M.D.
2. ADD-Friendly Ways to Organize Your Life by Judith Kolberg and Kathleen Nadeau, Ph.D.
3. You Mean I’m Not Lazy, Stupid or Crazy: The Classic Self-Help Book for Adults with Attention Deficit Disorder by Kate Kelly and Peggy Ramundo.
4. Is It Me or Adult ADD? by Gina Pera
5. Taking Charge Of Adult ADHD by Russel Barkley, Ph.d.
6. The Distracted Mind by Adam Gazzaley, Ph.D, and Larry Rosen Ph.D.

1. No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One by Carla Fine.
2. The Mourning Handbook by Helen Fitzgerald
3. The Grief Recovery Handbook: The Action Program for Moving Beyond Death, Divorce and Other Losses by John W. James and Russel Friedman
4. On Death and Dying: What the Dying Have To Teach Doctors, Nurses, Clergy and Their Own Families by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross.

1. Eat To Live by Joel Fuhrman, M.D.
2. The China Study: Startling Implications for Diet, Weight Loss and Long-Term Health by T. Colin Campbell, Ph.D and Thomas M. Campbell II.
3. DVD: Forks Over Knives.
4. Prescription For Nutritional Healing by James Balch, M.D. and Phyllis Balch, C.N.C.
5. Intuitive Eating by Evelyn Tribole, M.S., R.D. and Elyse Resch, M.S., R.D., F.A.D.A.
6. Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth About Your Weight by Linda Bacon, Ph.D.
7. Ultra-Prevention: The Six Week Plan That Will Make You Healthy for Lifeby Mark Hyman, M.D. and Mark Liponis, M.D.
8. Suicide by Sugar: A Startling Look at Our #1 Addiction by Nancy Appleton, Ph.D., and G.N. Jacobs.
9. Natural Health, Natural Medicine by Andrew Weil, M.D.
10. The Complete Book of Juicing by Michael T. Murray, N.D.
11. Juicing For Life: A Guide to the Health Benefits of Fresh Fruit and Vegetable Juicing by Cherie Calbom and Maureen Keane.

1. Making a Good Brain Great by Daniel Amen, M.D.
2. Rewire Your Brain by John Arden, Ph.D.
3. The UltraMind Solution by Mark Hyman, M.D.
4. The Better Brain Book: The Best Tools for Improving Memory and Sharpness and Preventing Aging of the Brain David Perlmutter, M.D., FACN and Carol Colman.

1. Buddhism Without Beliefs by Stephen Bachelor
2. Zen Mind, Beginners Mind by Shunryu Suzuki
3. Turning The Mind Into an Ally by Sakyong Mipham
4. Mindfulness by Ellen Langer
5. The Mindful Solution: Everyday Practices For Everyday Problems by Ronald Siegel
6. The Miracle of Mindfulness by Thich Nhat Hanh
7. Become What You Are by Alan Watts
8. Taoist Tales edited by Raymond Vanover
9. The Three Pillars of Zen by Roshi Philip Kapleau
10. Classics of Buddhism and Zen: The Collected Translations of Thomas Cleary
11. Zen Training: Methods and Philosophy by Katsuki Sekida

1. Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson PsyD
2. The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping With The One-Way Relationship in Work, Love and Family by Eleanor D. Payson, M.S.W.

1. Art and Fear: Observations on The Perils (and Rewards) of Art Making by David Bayles and Ted Orland
2. Creating: A Guide For Creative Process by Robert Fritz
3. The Everyday Work of Art: Awakening The Extraordinary in Your Daily Life by Eric Booth
4. Life, Paint and Passion: Reclaiming The Magic of Spontaneous Expression by Michell Cassou and Stewart Cubley
5. Fearless Creating: A Step-by-Step Guide To Starting and Completing Your Work Of Art by Eric Maisel Ph.D.
6. World Enough and Time: On Creativity and Slowing Down by Christian McEwen
7. No More Second Hand Art: Awakening The Artist Within by Peter London
8. A Soprano On Her Head: Right Side Reflections on Life and Other Performances by Eloise Ristad
9. This Is Your Brain On Music: The Science of Human Obsession by Daniel Levitan
10. Creativity and Art: Three Roads To Surprise by Margaret Boden
11. Creative Block: Advice and Projects From 50 Successful Artists by Danielle Krysa
12. Flow by Mihaly Cslkszentmialy Ph.D
13. The Four Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferris
14. Will It Fly: How To Test Your Next Business Idea So You Don’t Waste Time and Money by Pat Flynn